CEM 10: MANAGING RELATIONSHIP (Customs, Etiquettes and Manners)

Ø There are three basic spheres to help co-exist in a Relationship:-

: Learn to be a gracious gentleman or lady.

: You must know how to handle sticky situations with tact and decency.

: It is important to show good manners and appreciation in all your dealings with people. Discourtesy: an intentional mannerism which is the biggest enemy of relationship. Try to be on the same wave length.

Friendship: Whoever finds a friend finds a treasure, cherish friendship by being polite and helpful to each other. This requires a lot of mutual effort from both.

Spouse:

: Never take relationship for granted, or be possessive / jealous.

: Give space to each other.

: Keep confidentiality and secrecy.

: Do not try to patronize him/her. Treat him/her with consideration and care. Learn to respect his feelings and be sensitive to his needs.

Neighbours:

: Establish cordial relations.

: Avoid getting involved in gossip.

: Do not be isolated altogether.

: Relationships are tricky; keep your distance without being rude.

: Do not lose privacy.

Servants/Assistants

: Be open and friendly without actually being friends.

: Do not constantly remind them that they are your inferiors.

: Treat them well but not intimately

: Servants, to be given orders politely but firmly.

: Deal with situations sensibly and quietly and tell them not to repeat it again.

: Never show them how dependant you are.

Teacher-Student

: This relationship calls for a lot of caution and care.

: Proper respect and not be judgemental.

: Be impartial and not discriminate between the students.

: Good conduct and the respect shown to each other builds up mutual relationship.

Customer-Shopkeeper

: Do not make the mistake (if you are a customer) of expecting to be waited upon.

: The shopkeeper/assistant is not your personal servant.

: Do not shop in a larger group; it will put off other customers who think it is too crowded.

: Do not haggle where it is not an accepted practice.

: Do not be rude, tense or abusive.

: As a shopkeeper, greet your customer with a smile.

: An honest shopkeeper is appreciated

: Be accomodative.

Parent – Child

: Refrain from double standards.

: Observe good behaviour, attitude and ways of dealing with children.

: Practice what you preach eg. What is right and wrong differentiate (age to understand)

: Be a ready listener and listen patiently

: Be open in communicating with each other for a healthy relationship; (giving your undivided attention).

: No favouritism between children.

: Play your cards right, you will be amply rewarded by a sincere loving, caring, long-lasting relationship in life.

Also Read:

CEM 1: Etiquettes and Manners

CEM 2: Posture

CEM 3: Dress Code

CEM 4: Your Behaviour

CEM 5: Clarity
CEM 6: Extended Greetings
CEM 7: Dismissing or Escorting
CEM 8: Speaking and Listening

CEM 9: Conversation Starters

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